3 Common Kid’s Haircut Mistakes (and How to Avoid Them)
Robb Hanlon
Cutting hair isn’t just about technique — it’s about connection, communication, and comfort. Whether you’re an experienced barber or a newbie looking to build your family clientele, avoiding these common kids’ haircut mistakes can make all the difference in creating a tear-free, stress-free, and positive experience for both the child and their parents.
Here are 3 of the most common kid’s haircut mistakes — and how to avoid them.
#1: Not Using A Hair Cape
It may seem like a small detail, but skipping the hair cape is one of the biggest reasons kids become uncomfortable during a haircut.
Freshly cut hair on the neck, arms, or back can be itchy, irritating, and even anxiety-inducing — especially for young kids who are already fearful of the process. That discomfort can lead to squirming, whining, or full-on meltdowns.
How to avoid it:
✅ Always use a properly sized kids’ cape, like our Fire Chief Hair Cape:
Designed for comfort and fun
Fits like a jacket for familiarity and comfort, while doubling as a fun costume help kids get excited for their haircut
Bonus tip: Have a parent help to put on the hair cape — this small act helps them feel safe and comfortable, while giving them a sense of control and participation.
#2: Not Allowing the Parent to Help
Some barbers choose to take a hands-off approach with parents— or, they try too hard to take over and risk losing the child’s trust. Kid haircuts are a team effort between the barber/stylist and the parent(s).
When the parent is nearby and engaged (without hovering), it reassures the child. They know they’re safe, supported, and not being left alone in an unfamiliar situation.
How to avoid it:
✅ Practice “co-parenting” during the haircut. Let parents step in to:
Offer their child a toy or snack
Gently hold their hand
Comfort them with reassurance
This tag-team approach helps the child stay calm without adding pressure to either party. It also builds trust with the parent(s) — a win-win for client retention and referrals.
#3: Skipping the Small Talk
You’d be surprised how often barbers forget the most important part of the appointment: the child themselves. If you’re focused only on the haircut and not engaging with the kid, they’re more likely to shut down or panic.
Kids need attention and reassurance — especially in new, unfamiliar environments. If they don’t feel comfortable or safe, fear builds quickly.
How to avoid it:
✅ Build a friendly, small relationship by:
Introducing yourself directly to the child and the parent(s)
Asking questions like “What’s your favorite color?” or “What do you want to watch today?”
Offering praise: “You’re doing awesome!” or “Wow, look so cool!”
Even silly sounds or playful gestures go a long way in building trust and reducing fear.
A great kid’s haircut is about more than just a cut — it’s about creating a positive, stress-free experience for all parties involved.
Want more expert tips for kid-friendly haircuts?
📲 Get Kids Haircut Certified (for free!) and join our database of barbers/stylists that parents can trust.
Or explore our First Haircut Kit to retail at your shop and help families prepare before their child’s first haircut.
📸 Photo Credits: @ray.sbarbershop on Instagram
